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“Who are we meant to become in this lifetime? Are we indeed allowed to become who we would like to be or who society expects us to be? Are our ego and its identifications the ultimate possible truth, or is it only one of the infinite truths? Are there some predestinated outcomes or experiences in our lives that we must endure, whether they are what we would have hoped for or not? What role does free will play in all of it, whether in luck or relationships?

Well, you are in for a treat because there is no one correct answer to them. I had my share of adventures in this incarnation, many resulting from my choices. Yet, the most pivotal ones were serendipitous, karmic, or predestined experiences that came about while facing utter dismay at the hand of my ego’s blinding dictatorship, trying to comply with that life which was imposed on me since childhood where my two stern parents for lack of discernment obligated me to study and pursue a career that it was not my calling. I was molded into what they believed could give me the best footing in a middle-class society, but my passion or vocation was killed in the process. And I tell you if you want to experience hell, go to university for decades and then end up in a soulless corporate job in America pursuing the so-called American Dream, which for many now has become the American Nightmare.

A human being's capacity for co-creating is proportionate to the passion in its creation. You may try to force your way into fitting the mold, but yes, hard work and sweat will carry you through, and this has indeed worked for me for several decades. Even when I was laid off from my last corporate job, I was somehow forced into a professional intermediation role to attain my residence and be allowed to remain in the US rightfully. I was doing it to survive and comply with what was expected of me. Buy a house, marry, and have a family. The game's name always was, I will feel fulfillment when this or that happens… until then, I must lower my head and pull through; this is what society expects from me.

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